Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Chapter 15 Discussion Questions


Chapter 15:  Finding a Holy Self

Barnes says that it is God’s goal for us that, as we learn to delight in God, we are able to delight in our own lives (p. 208). 

How does deeply loving God free us from the obligation of trying to live up to what we feel are God’s expectations for us and for our lives?  How can it change our relationships with other people in our lives?

On page 215, Barnes says, “(God’s) invitation to us is to spend a lot more time praying to know his heart than his will.”  What does this mean?

On page 216, Barnes asks, “Have you embraced your identity as the beloved – the Father’s gift to you?”

And then, “It is the only thing that will satisfy your thirst.”  This identity, that we are God’s beloved, is the only thing that will satisfy our thirst.  Contemplate this.  Pray for this.  Know this.  Experience the freedom that this gift provides.

Chapter 14 Discussion Questions


Chapter 14:  Finding a Holy Joy

Read the first paragraph of the chapter, regarding “falling in love with God,” together.  Do you feel that, at this stage of your spiritual journey, you are overwhelmed with the joy of loving God? Have you replaced the possibility for joy with spiritual development?

Has the message of the Gospels, that God loved you so much that he sent his only begotten Son, transformed your life?  If not, how have you responded to this message? 

What does being in love with God look like?

On pages 198-199, Barnes says, “God has always reserved his greatest judgment for those who remain indifferent – and who think God is indifferent.”  Barnes refers to Revelation 3:16, in which God tells the Laodiceans, “So, because you are lukewarm--neither hot nor cold--I am about to spit you out of my mouth.”  And, he says on page 200, “Spiritual apathy leaves the worst lukewarm taste in the mouth of a passionate God.”  Are we guilty of indifference, apathy, and “lukewarm-ness” as a response to the incredible message of the Gospels?

Barnes proposes three ways of finding a Holy Joy:

1)  Living with Gratitude

2)  Loving God with reckless abandon
(p. 202):  When it comes to things such as health and morality, being careful is pretty important, but there are other times when it is not as wise – like when we are trying to enter the kingdom of heaven.”

3)  Having Hope
(p. 206):  Of course we do not always get what we really want – but that does not mean that we dare give up the joy of having hope.  We are a people who must have hope.  Not just because it makes us feel good, but, more profoundly, because God is involved in this world.  The most powerful illustration of this truth can be seen in his coming to be with us in Jesus Christ.”

What do you think? If you haven’t already found a Holy Joy, can you make some changes to live this life?